Lemmy
25 Jun 2026 09:47
Do you think this guy likes me, or is he just being nice?
Context: I’m 19 and completely inexperienced when it comes to dating. Two days ago, my friend, her boyfriend, and I were supposed to go see Backrooms together, but one of the boyfriend’s friends joined us last minute. This guy insisted on paying for my movie ticket, snacks, dinner afterward, and even 3 books when we stopped at a bookstore, and then he drove me home. After the movie, I mentioned that I wanted to see Obsession next because, in my mind, they’re kind of sister movies, and he said we should go see it together, which we did yesterday. He acted the exact same way then too. He’s also going fishing on Sunday, and I’m going with him. I’ve never had a guy act like this toward me before, so I honestly don’t know what to make of it. But I really love it, and I can’t stop thinking about him.
Yes.
I usually wait until the 4th date to consider getting intimate with someone. Go to a resturaunt for your 4th date. I would personally hold off intimacy till then, but hey, if it happens then it happens, just focus on having a good time together until the moment feels right.
I usually wait until the 4th date to consider getting intimate with someone. Go to a resturaunt for your 4th date. I would personally hold off intimacy till then, but hey, if it happens then it happens, just focus on having a good time together until the moment feels right.
25 Jun 2026 09:57
I have zero experience with datung as well 
but maybe try flirting with him and see his reaction?
but maybe try flirting with him and see his reaction?
25 Jun 2026 09:58
Even if this was an actual date, paying for the movie, dinner and gifts would be a bit much. It's like he's trying to be your sugar daddy.
25 Jun 2026 10:06
As a 30M European, I'd say red flag. Committing like this on a first "date" is kind of unusual. Buying tickets, snacks, and books while - derived from context - meeting for the first time.
I'd look out and watch closely, don't let shiny things blind you, and enjoy the moments.
I'd look out and watch closely, don't let shiny things blind you, and enjoy the moments.
25 Jun 2026 10:07
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